TRUE FRIENDSHIP For those who have experienced the joy of true friendship,and for those who are searching for a true friend.

A TRUE FRIEND LIKE ME DO ANYTHING 4 HIS FRIENDS A true friend is there through the good and bad, beautiful and ugly, hot and cold, rain or shine
A true friend can't wait to see you,embrace you, hug you, love you,laugh with you, talk with you
A true friend is your backseat driver,protector, adviser, right-hand-man,partner, consultant, one-of-a-kind
A true friend will not tolerate excuses,condone compromise, or lie for you
A true friend is your bosom-buddy,pal, confidant, sidekick, colleague,comrade-in-arms, companion
A true friend is fifty-fifty, will tell you anything, keep a secret, correct you when you are wrong, and advise you
to do that which is right
A true friend is bold, courageous,fearless, and will be at your side in a moment's notice, under any circumstances
A true friend will not patronize you,forsake you, lie to you, or betray you
A true friend will stand shoulder-to-shoulder with you through life's toughest times, and will not back down in the face of adversity
A true friend is not dictated to or ruled-over by others, but listens to you, cares only for you, and puts you first in his life--above and beyond everything and everyone on Earth
A true friend will share his life experiences with you, and tell you the truth in love,even if it hurts and makes you mad
A true friend will stand up for you in the midst of your persecution, and guard you in a storm of rocks and arrows
A true friend will keep a secret, correct you, encourage you, and love you, even when you are wrong
A true friend will warn you of danger,warn you when you are being deceived,tell you "Don't do it!" and always be there for you...no matter what
A true friend will hold your hand tightly,support you, stop you from falling, crawl with you, and carry you if you can't walk
A true friend will feel your pain and sorrow, suffer with you, cry with you,and gently dry the tears from your face
A true friend will trust you with his life,take you at your word, and tell you to get tough and stop your whining
A true friend will stand face-to-face with your enemies, defend you, protect you,fight for you, make sacrifices for you,and even die for you
A true friend will look ahead for you,be there with you, lead you, guide you,walk side-by-side with you, guard you,follow behind you, and watch your back to keep you safe
A true friend will give you his last morsel of food, last drop of water, last breath of air

A true friend's shoulder is stained with your tears...A true friend's like me never live u always be wid u

Why Women Cry ?

A little boy asked his mother, "Why are you crying?" "Because I'm a woman," she told him.

"I don't understand," he said. His Mom just hugged him and said, "And you never will."

Later the little boy asked his father, "Why does mother seem to cry for no reason?"

"All women cry for no reason," was all his dad could say.

The little boy grew up and became a man, still wondering why women cry. Finally he put in a call to God. When God got on the phone, he asked, "God, why do women cry so easily?"

God said: "When I made the woman she had to be special.

I made her shoulders strong enough to carry the weight of the world, yet gentle enough to give comfort.

I gave her an inner strength to endure childbirth and the rejection that many times comes from her children.

I gave her a hardness that allows her to keep going when everyone else gives up, and take care of her family through sickness and fatigue without complaining.

I gave her the sensitivity to love her children under any and all circumstances, even when her child has hurt her very badly.

I gave her strength to carry her husband through his faults and fashioned her from his rib to protect his heart.

I gave her wisdom to know that a good husband never hurts his wife, but sometimes tests her strengths and her resolve to stand beside him unfalteringly.

And finally, I gave her a tear to shed. This is hers exclusively to use whenever it is needed."

"You see my son," said God, "the beauty of a woman is not in the clothes she wears, the figure that she carries, or the way she combs her hair.

The beauty of a woman must be seen in her eyes, because that is the doorway to her heart - the place where love resides.........

WE SHOULD NEED TO RESPECT WOMEN BECAUSE WITHOUT THEM EARTH WOULD BECOME DESERT.

World’s population constitute of approximately 50 % of females.
Every now and then, we keep listening to news that say women are not being treated properly. I really find it weird that in spite of the fact that women constitute of such a big part of the world population, in spite of the fact that they contribute so much to the society, even then, women are being treated with lack of respect.

Being nice and respectful to a woman does not take a lot of effort, but it seems that many men seem to think the opposite. The problem is exasperated by Movies, TV shows and music videos that encourage being horrible to women. They put out the false image that a woman will like a man better when he is mean to her, than when he is nice to her. This might work in the Movies but in real life, if you are mean to a girl you will get nowhere fast.
Just being nice and respectful is all that is needed most of the time. Women don't want anything extra. You just need to treat them like you would treat your mother,sister or wife and all will be good. I find it amazing how some men are very nice to their female relatives and when they are with their partner they are very mean and abusive.

Honesty is also a big part of being respectful to women. You should never lie to women, no matter how small the matter is. Lying will eventually come back to haunt you and you will look a fool, but if you are honest from the beginning, you will come across as a good person and people will have respect for you. This does not mean that you have to confess all you sins and bare all that you have done wrong, that is just silly, but it means that you are truthful and straightforward with women. Many men try to conceal who they are because they are ashamed and think they won't find a partner unless they lie about themselves, but this is a terrible strategy......... I believe this should not happen and that is why, I want to raise a voice against disrespect towards women by my blog

Does true love really exist? Is true love known to last forever? Can we fall in love more than once?

Yes the fact is true love does exist even in the present day society but the question remains how to figure out whether your love is true or not?
True love is blind- Yes it's a fact. When your love is true you would not even realize how and when you fell in it. It just happens to you. You would never even know or realize how you developed such feelings but you would have a strong inclination towards the person you love and such feelings would be heart felt.
You would miss that person every moment- This is the real test of your love. You would always miss the person you love each and every moment of your life no matter what. You would always want to be around him or her as much as possible.
The magic never ends- When your love is true the magic never ends. You still get the same feelings and butterflies in your stomach which you used to get when you fell in love for the first time.

Happens only once- Yes it's a hard fact to understand but true love only happens once. In the present day society people tend to change partners like clothes and this is one of the major reasons why most people can't stay with a single partner forever. True love is always about staying with your partner forever..............

What is true love?

The true love is something that everyone wants to feel, but it is a fact that only a little part of the people has the luck to meet her. What is actually the true love? That is the most beautiful thing that can happen to someone, because that is one shared feeling. When you meet someone and fall in love with him that is not the true love still. If this person shares your feelings that still is not the true love.
But it is true that this is the first step to that amazing feeling. The true love is something more then falling in love. She is at the first place trust, because without him every relationship is fated and can’t survive a long time. When you have trust in your partner you are anxiety-free. That must be shared because when the one person in the relationship believes in the other, but the other don’t do this, this leads to problems and probably to broke up. The true love is a friendship. You must to can be not only lover to your partner, you must be his friend.
Your partner must be the man from who you can ask for advice and who you can say your secrets, because he will not say to no one else this things, he wouldn’t be betrayed you. It is a true love when you can talk about everything with the person who you are in love with. Exactly the talking is the most important thing for the true love, because when the partners talk, they can find a decision to every problem, which they have. One big part of the couples breaking up, because they can’t or don’t want to talk. When the love is a true love, she can survive everything. Every problem is a test for the feelings and strength of one relationship. The true love is help. When you really love someone you are ready to help him right away and to do everything for him.
Of course this must be shared. The true love is care, because when you are in love with someone you make everything that your partner can feel fine and loved. When the love is a true love this fact automatically eliminates the egoism, because now you are not alone and you must thing about the wishes, which have the person with who you are. When you love someone you want to make him happy. The true love means support too. The feeling when you know that by you stands someone who loves you and every time will support you, is really great. One love is true when the two in the relationship are frank and honest.
The true love is aspiration for acquaintance of the man who you are in love with. When you became well familiarize with your partner, you will find his entire blemish, but you must not aspire to remove them. If your partner’s love to you is real he will make everything possible to remove them himself. When two people can make so that their character fit and when they can make compromises that mean that these people love each other and their love is a true love. To find the true love means to find a perfect match for you, your half. The people are saying that everyone has a half somewhere over the world, but these who meet her are only a little part.

When the love is shared, she is a true love and makes you one better person and the world look like a better place for a living. When you and your partner have the same thinking and the same conception for the life, you can be together a very long time. The true love is when two people want to spend their time together in loving each other and when their love survives all of the obstacles, which they meet during their life together. Furthermore, if the people are able to keep their love the same as it was in the beginning through out the years, you can say that this is true love. Remember that finding the true love of your life is really hard and you may need more than one lifetime to make that happen, but in the end it will be worth it. Make sure that you will never stop searching for the true love, because there is no set date that you will find it and also the true love is likely to appear in odd circumstances.

How do you know whether it is true love or not?

A love is true after it passes some 12 tests
1- A love that increases with time
2- A love that is based on knowing each other, not love from the first sight or just some sort of "attraction".
3- A love that focuses on taking care of the partner's feelings, not one's feelings, with no selfishness at all.
4- A love that is directed towards ONLY this person and not moving from one to another.
5- A love that makes you feel safe in a real way; knowing that this love can face all the problems if you are both joined together.
6- A love that encourages both partners to grow in everything and not neglecting their lives, work or God.
7- A love that can face troubles without falling apart.
8- A love that gives each one his/her own space; so that each partner respects the privacy and freedom of the other partner, that they don't want to 'possess' each other, but they both respect each other's wills, without making the love decrease among each other.
9- A love that evolves first after being convinced with the other, not love at the first sight!
10- A love that includes physical attraction... This point comes at number 10, but there is no harm that it should exist, but this shouldn't be what moves the couple forward in their relationship.
11- A love that is constant not based on any wrong reasons like sexual attraction or anything like that... that both couples know, respect and accept each other.

12- A love that is committed and grows towards marriage by carefully studying the right steps and moving towards them, not just "I want to marry you tomorrow"... and taking serious actions, taking all factors of life into consideration.

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Jisse sara gulshan mehak uttha hai

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