Wednesday 28 September 2011

TRUE LOVE BEYOND THE PHYSICAL RELATIONSHIP

LOVE
Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres. Love never fails.
Love isn't blind or deaf or dumb - in fact it sees far more than it will ever tell. It is going beyond yourself and stretching who you are for someone else. Being entails seeing someone as you wish they were: to love them is to see who they really are and still care for them. Love isn't bitter, but you can't have love without pain: sacrifice is the hallmark of love , the coin of love.
Being in love usually is used in a romantic sense when you meet your significant other transforming a normal relationship into a deeper one without further interest in others.Love means that you trust the person, would do anything for the person, know that person is with you through thick and thin, isn't afraid to be seen with you. make sure they treat you right
This verse describes the characteristics of true love. These qualities can certainly be found in the person of lord krishna, and they can be found in all truly loving relationships. The problem with trying to “find” love in our dating lives, is that too often we don't look for these characteristics. Rather we look at physical appearance, popularity, or wealth. These are not the qualities that God looks at and neither should we.The LORD does not look at the things man looks at. Man looks at the outward appearance, but the LORD looks at the heart.
Love is best seen as devotion and action, not an emotion. Love is not exclusively based on how we feel. Certainly our emotions are involved, but they cannot be our only criteria for love. True devotion will always lead to action true love.
SEX
Sex is not love! Our culture has taught us that sex and love are one in the same. This is a lie. Sex is a beautiful God given activity that is wonderful when practiced within the boundaries of a marriage. Sex is the completion of the binding of two people within marriage; it is a God-given gift.
PRE-MARITAL SEX
Because premarital sex is not love, it only leads to pain and disappointment for those who are seeking that love. The god says that when two people are married, they become one flesh .Sex is consummation of that union. When two people break off their relationship after having sex, it is like ripping apart flesh. This is why two teenagers will struggle so much and become so dependent on those they give their bodies to. it is easy to see that premarital sex is not patient, it is not kind, it does not protect, it is self-seeking. It is not love!
IDENTIFYING TRUE LOVE
We can only identify true love and know when we have found it, based on the Word of God. When we match our relationships up to what the god says that love is and we are honestly prepared to make a life-long commitment to that person then we can say that we are truly “in love.” The three keys to that statement are:
We have to…
1…look at the Word of God
2…be completely honest with ourselves
3…understand the level of commitment that comes with true love.

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